What is the Abortion Memorial?

This is a safe place for mothers, fathers, grandparents, and other family members to remember children who were lost to abortion. Share your story, thoughts, and prayers in words, pictures, or video. Abortion Memorial is a place to honor children lost in the womb, and provides a place for healing and encouragement.

If you are a visitor to the site, take a moment to read through the memorials and stories, and pray for the families impacted by abortion.

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Always in My Heart

I have your ultrasound and my positive pregnant tests in a small box. Losing you was losing my first baby. I will always love you. Always in my heart. I wish every day you were with me.

Please Forgive Me

Your daddy and I still grieve for you every single day. We became more close to each other than ever, since you came into our lives. Daddy misses when he read to you the book that he bought for you. I was scared and selfish about what others think. I regret my decision, and I(…)

Your tiny hands

I had to delay the abortion because I had an overseas trip to another continent for work and the doctor did not want to me to develop complications on the flight. All I kept thinking was that by the time I will be doing the surgery you would have had formed hands. Tiny hands with(…)

Please forgive me

I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I haven’t forgiven myself yet. Today is one year since I let you go. I know I made the decision to do so, as it was the right decision but my heart hurts for what I did to you. I hurt for being so selfish and irresponsible. You were the(…)

To my baby, I’m so sorry

My dear baby, I am so sorry I couldn’t keep you. But please know that I love you so much and your daddy does too. I’m sorry we can’t give you the perfect life that you deserve, we promise to always love you and that in another life, another time, we will meet again. Sleep(…)

My Two Angels

Aiden and Avery, Not a day goes by I don’t think about you two. I feel so empty inside and like a part of me is lost. It’s only been a few months and I feel I will never recover. I’m sorry my body rejected you and I am sorry I needed to let you(…)

My Baby

I remember everything about you. I’ve always known you would come into my life…at 18. I’m so sorry I could not be strong enough to make it through the storms of life to allow you to be born. I was so sick and my family was totally disapproving and insistent that I let you go.(…)

Gone but never forgotten

I still remember every detail like it had only happened yesterday, you were taken away before I had chance to see you. I wish I had had the courage to stand up for you, to fight but as 15 year old with an eating disorder my voice was lost and the decision was made. Two(…)

you are the hardest decision of my...

Dear my sweet baby, Your almost 5 weeks old and you will never know how much I already love you and want to protect you despite only finding out 3 days ago you exist but deep down I knew i was pregnant with you or a few weeks, mainly because you clearly didn’t like any(…)

The silent grief

If you had been allowed to live you would be 15 years old now. You continue to grow in my heart, my head, my memories and in your forever home, Heaven. Even after all these years, the pain comes in waves, some days/weeks/months I am fine and then suddenly the grief will hit me, and(…)

Northern Lights I still think of y...

I have already posted about you but need to say more once again. Years have passed and I still cry thinking of you my son Northern Lights. you’re the wound in my heart that never seals. You’re the secret wound in my heart that will always be open and raw bleeding. I am so sorry(…)

Forever in my heart

My heart mourns for you everyday and my life basically ceased the day you were taken from me. I confirmed my pregnancy on December 27, 1973. your father and I were excited yet scared to death as we were both teenagers still in school. He and I had no choice to keep you, it was(…)

My Heart

Tonight would have been your first Christmas. I got to do all the traditions with your big brothers and sister, but there was a piece missing, you. I think of you everyday and miss you more than I thought imaginable. I can’t ask for your forgiveness, nor do I deserve it. I have no reason(…)


“Iggy” 15/11/17. Your father and I decided that it wasn’t the right time for you to enter this world- I your mother is still recovering from serious injuries and didn’t want you to be born with complications- There is a not a day where I don’t think about you- if you would of been a(…)


You were the most beautiful being I’ve ever met. We were one. I will love your forever. Words cannot describe the pain I feel each and every day. I tried so hard to love you, but I was beaten down by others. I have no words, I’m sorry-baby, I wish I could have been stronger.(…)

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