What is the Abortion Memorial?

This is a safe place for mothers, fathers, grandparents, and other family members to remember children who were lost to abortion. Share your story, thoughts, and prayers in words, pictures, or video. Abortion Memorial is a place to honor children lost in the womb, and provides a place for healing and encouragement.

If you are a visitor to the site, take a moment to read through the memorials and stories, and pray for the families impacted by abortion.

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Please forgive me

I’m sorry. Please forgive me. I haven’t forgiven myself yet. Today is one year since I let you go. I know I made the decision to do so, as it was the right decision but my heart hurts for what I did to you. I hurt for being so selfish and irresponsible. You were the(…)

Im so sorry

Im so sorry, Im selfish, and its my fault. I never will know what you would have looked like, or what personality you may have had. Im sorry for putting you mum through this too. I dont think anyone actually realises that i care for you and always will. I wish i could be mentally(…)

To my baby, I’m so sorry

My dear baby, I am so sorry I couldn’t keep you. But please know that I love you so much and your daddy does too. I’m sorry we can’t give you the perfect life that you deserve, we promise to always love you and that in another life, another time, we will meet again. Sleep(…)

I am sorry I wasn’t able to save...

I am sorry I didn’t know about either of you until you were in heaven. I would have tried with all my heart and soul to keep you here with your brothers and sister. You mattered To our family, You both are loved and were wanted. I hope you didn’t feel pain. I am so(…)

My Two Angels

Aiden and Avery, Not a day goes by I don’t think about you two. I feel so empty inside and like a part of me is lost. It’s only been a few months and I feel I will never recover. I’m sorry my body rejected you and I am sorry I needed to let you(…)

My Baby

I remember everything about you. I’ve always known you would come into my life…at 18. I’m so sorry I could not be strong enough to make it through the storms of life to allow you to be born. I was so sick and my family was totally disapproving and insistent that I let you go.(…)

My Beautiful Grandchild.

Nana loves you so much. I did not do enough to save you, my baby, please forgive me. My heart aches so for you. I know you are with my mother and she is giving you all the love I should have. All my love….Nana.

Gone but never forgotten

I still remember every detail like it had only happened yesterday, you were taken away before I had chance to see you. I wish I had had the courage to stand up for you, to fight but as 15 year old with an eating disorder my voice was lost and the decision was made. Two(…)

you are the hardest decision of my...

Dear my sweet baby, Your almost 5 weeks old and you will never know how much I already love you and want to protect you despite only finding out 3 days ago you exist but deep down I knew i was pregnant with you or a few weeks, mainly because you clearly didn’t like any(…)

The silent grief

If you had been allowed to live you would be 15 years old now. You continue to grow in my heart, my head, my memories and in your forever home, Heaven. Even after all these years, the pain comes in waves, some days/weeks/months I am fine and then suddenly the grief will hit me, and(…)

Northern Lights I still think of y...

I have already posted about you but need to say more once again. Years have passed and I still cry thinking of you my son Northern Lights. you’re the wound in my heart that never seals. You’re the secret wound in my heart that will always be open and raw bleeding. I am so sorry(…)

Forever in my heart

My heart mourns for you everyday and my life basically ceased the day you were taken from me. I confirmed my pregnancy on December 27, 1973. your father and I were excited yet scared to death as we were both teenagers still in school. He and I had no choice to keep you, it was(…)

My Heart

Tonight would have been your first Christmas. I got to do all the traditions with your big brothers and sister, but there was a piece missing, you. I think of you everyday and miss you more than I thought imaginable. I can’t ask for your forgiveness, nor do I deserve it. I have no reason(…)


“Iggy” 15/11/17. Your father and I decided that it wasn’t the right time for you to enter this world- I your mother is still recovering from serious injuries and didn’t want you to be born with complications- There is a not a day where I don’t think about you- if you would of been a(…)

You are loved

Dear baby Asa, If I had known about you, I would had saved you.We lost you and I am heartbroken. I love you very much and you mattered to me. I know you returned to your heavenly father and He welcomed you back into His loving arms. I will see you heaven,sweet baby. Love grandma

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