What is the Abortion Memorial?

This is a safe place for mothers, fathers, grandparents, and other family members to remember children who were lost to abortion. Share your story, thoughts, and prayers in words, pictures, or video. Abortion Memorial is a place to honor children lost in the womb, and provides a place for healing and encouragement.

If you are a visitor to the site, take a moment to read through the memorials and stories, and pray for the families impacted by abortion.

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Parents

Regret is real

For 20 years I have lived with pain & regret of my decision, having just turned 17 and finding out I was pregnant with you was the most scariest thing I’ve ever felt. Not because I didn’t want you because I knew the moment I found out I wanted you more than you could imagine!(…)

If only I could go back in time

If only I could relive the two worst days of my life. I would give anything to have the courage and resilience back then to make better choices. I believed the lies, it was convenient. I pretended it was the best decision for me because I was a scared. I have lived every day knowing(…)

Baby made out of love

To the baby I did not get to meet. I want to let you know I apologize for being selfish and making the hardest decision I ever made I loved the thought of having a beautiful baby with your dad. But unfortunately I was selfish because I wasn’t being a mother to your brothers. Technically(…)

I love you

You will always be loved by mommy. Your sibling has cancer and mommy could not provide for you during this time. It’s been a busy journey with the cancer diagnosis and I couldn’t be selfish and bring you to also suffer, worry or be left in someone else’s care because mommy is busy with sibling(…)

Mateo and Lorelai

My sweet babies. I think of how you would have looked like. I wonder how you smell and who you cloud have become. I couldn’t bring you into this world without knowing we couldn’t provide everything you deserve. Yes , we would have loved you but financially we couldn’t provide. Even though your father and(…)

To baby sesame

To my baby sesame, I will forever grieve and love you, I can’t wait for the day you come back to me and I can provide you with the life you deserve. I will never forget how it felt to have you inside of me. I love you so deeply, I think about you every(…)

Little Precious Bean

To my little angel, I’m so lucky to have felt the joy of being your mama and meeting you in my dreams ❤️ I love you so very much and I always will think of you. I know you’re in a safe happy place. I hope you’re making lots of friends and eating a lot(…)

My beautiful Angel baby, how I wis...

My beautiful Angel baby, gosh how I wish I’d gotten to see those chubby cheeks, your cute little feet. I was weak and did not stand up for you and for that I’m so sorry, I sent you back before you were even fully formed, but my gosh I’ll never ever forget how much I(…)

Happy 18th Birthday Peter

Happy 18th Birthday Peter! Wishing we were celebrating together and I had made a different decision years ago. I know you are celebrating with Jesus and all our family members who have gone before me. I love you always and feel your presence often. May our reunion in heaven be filled with grace and glory(…)

my baby

i’m so empty, angry that i can’t take back time… angry that i didn’t choose for you to live, i took away an innocent soul a life that deserved to live as much as i am living right now.. i am numb to feelings sorely because i wanted you so much my baby but yet(…)

To my dear darling baby.

The pain sometimes is so hard to bear, even after 11 years. I regretted it all the moment I woke up from the procedure. I screamed, “My baby!”. I’m so sorry I was weak and insecure. Your dad didn’t want to keep you because we were barely making it and didn’t want to give you(…)

Auna Alease

My home life was filled with abuse and trauma. I was looking for love and acceptance. I could not find it at home, so I turned to a guy to provide what I thought was love and care, but in reality, it was abuse and manipulation. I had just turned eighteen years old, became pregnant,(…)

My Third Baby

Married with two beautiful girls, and it was three years after my second child was born when we were pregnant again. The pregnancy was unplanned but not unwanted, but the pregnancy came during the craziness of the pandemic. I was unemployed and taking care of my girls at home, my husband was barely working with(…)

The One I couldn’t keep

It seemed like the right thing to do. It seemed like the option was for the best. But what I didn’t know was that the choice would haunt me months later. I wish I gave it more thought. I gave you up but I died with you that day. I didn’t know that I would(…)

If I had been aborted I would not ...

My birth mother was raped and she found out that she was pregnant-she wanted to have an abortion but could find anyone to do this. She tried to commit suicide but God saved her life and mine- I was introduced to my adopted parents at 5 days old. If I had been aborted I would(…)

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